How often do we hear the term “you have to love yourself”! The problem is we may recognize it and we feel that the reasons why things are happening to us is because we don’t love ourselves. We just don’t know how to go about achieving that goal.
Self reflection is an important component to identifying where we need to make changes regarding self love. Most of the time we are giving our power and time away to others and not giving enough time to ourselves. Self love requires the understanding that you have to first give to yourself before you can adequately give to others. If your Self Love Bank isn’t full then you have nothing to give to others.
Everyday it is important to take time for yourself. This can be as simple as self grooming or getting involved in things that you have an interest in. A wonderful way is to take time for yourself is to meditate and pray and clear out all the cob webs so you can receive the information you need to hear in order to make appropriate changes in your life.
If you are consistent in making sure that you are one of the people that you give value to everyday then the changes will come. Each and everyone of us is specially created and brings value to this the universe. Knowing comes from practicing it until it begins to sink into our minds and heart just how special we are.
Have you ever met someone that you connect with so strongly that it seems out of this world. That connect has had a direct change in all aspects of your life. You know that this connection is beyond anything you understand and that this person is the one. You probably feel love at a level that you did not know even existed. The feeling is so strong that you give up your power to that person and are willing to sacrifice everything to keep the relationship in tact.
Through the process of this relationship you may have experienced job changes, loss of your home, financial difficulties and changes or losses of other relationship’s in your life. More importantly you were changed on an internal level that took you to a place where you felt totally out of control and not really sure why this person was brought into your life at all.
Understanding that the soul mate connection does not necessarily mean that you will live in happily ever after bliss, but is brought into your life to help you grow spiritually. This relationship shows you the areas that you need to heal in this lifetime. The reason why your connection with this person is so strong is because you have met in many lifetimes to help each other grow and progress. You are right it is a special kind of love.
Know that at the core you are a spiritual being having a physical experience. It is not the other way around. As you emerge from this process you will find that you have a greater understanding or yourself and why you came into this life. You will have a greater understanding of what love truly is and that it can change anything. You may or may not end up with your soulmate, but with work and time your growth will be worth the experience no matter how difficult it is to go through.
Have you ever wondered why you continue to repeat certain patterns in your life? What about attracting the same kind of relationships? Perhaps you keep attracting people who abandon you emotionally or just leave you without explanation.
Often times we go through our lives trying to make changes within ourselves to stop these repeated patterns. We recognize them, but are unsure of why the energy is so strong and the pattern is so hard to break.
Well each one of us comes into this life with a plan or an agreement that we have made ahead of time of lessons that we are working through to progress spiritually in this life time. Those lessons are repeats of lessons that we have not completely worked through in past lives.
The idea is to recognize what those lessons are and then proceed to work through them. This is not necessarily an easy task, but using different energies including past life regressions can be very helpful as you journey towards letting go and successfully breaking repeating patterns that have plagued your life.
Have you ever known someone who is always talking about their problems and it is always someone else’s fault? Of course you have, this is a common theme with most of us. In fact it is a pretty safe bet that we ourselves are guilty of blaming others or situations for the circumstances we are in. Yes we all have experiences where we feel we have been hurt by family members, friends or romantic partners.
Often after years of dealing with the people in our lives we can feel totally powerless. We ask ourselves, “How can I get this person to treat me with the respect I deserve?” Well the truth of the matter is that we attract the relationships we have. It is not something that we are consciously doing. However, this is where it is important to start taking a closer look at what we are getting out of our relationships with others. Our relationships whether they are healthy or unhealthy are a direct correlation to how we as individuals view ourselves.
The only person that anyone of us has the power to change is ourselves. This can be very difficult to accept because it requires